Hi Everyone,
I have been thinking lately about the struggle cancer patients have with not letting their cancer define them. I am particularly focused on this dilemma now, as I spend time and share love with my Sherri, who is in the end stage of Glioblastoma. Throughout her illness, Sherri has demonstrated bravery, positivity, and hope. She has not let her cancer dictate who she is, though the illness has taken so much from her, and has changed his entire daily life experience.
Though Sherri is bed-ridden, weak, and in pain, she will not let her cancer have power over her. When she can summon the energy to speak, it is to share a joke, or reminisce about so many wonderful memories she had.
I have taken my cue from my friend, staring cancer in the face and putting it in its place. It is something I have to work at. I call up my friends attitudes and battles, trying to somehow absorb their bravery, strength, outlook, and sense of power, no matter what their cancers have thrown at them.
Below is a writing I have hanging next to my computer. I read it every day – sometimes several times a day. It reminds me of the lessons my friend have taught me. You are not your cancer. You are so much more. Celebrate all that you have and are, and let cancer know who’s in charge.
‘Til next time,
“What Cancer Cannot Do”
Cancer is so limited…
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot eat away peace.
It cannot destroy confidence.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot shut out memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot reduce eternal life.
It cannot quench the Spirit.
Author: Unknown
